Best friends

I don't know if I'm somewhat selfish at the moment but it's upsetting when someone who you cherish doesn't seem to be putting effort into a something that's important to you. 

I completely understand your circumstances but at least show in some form that you tried/want to be there instead of giving in so early and trying to make me feel better about it because gifts are not what matter. If the roles were reversed, you know I'd be there in a flash. Can't you do the same for me?